I prefer my children plus try to make them cheerful and I can, however I have always been firm with rules plus boundaries.
Their room is their domain, however it is a privilege plus they must maintain plus care for their domain if they want to keep it.
That’s why I insist that they scrub their rooms annually so they don’t have the chance to allow it to become a wreck. They also have their duties regarding chores around the house. My child is in charge of mowing the sod, taking out the garage, plus replacing the air conditioner filter. My daughter dusts, vacuums, sweeps, plus mops the house each week. Between the 2 of them, they do whatever chores that my husband plus I simply don’t have the time to complete. But forcing them to learn responsibility at an early age will benefit them both in the long run. It’s also pressing to create firm rules as well. They have a 10pm curfew plus neither of them is allowed to adjust the thermostat without asking. Occasionally if a single of them feels easily moderate inside, I will deliver them my consent to lower the temperature by a few degrees. Otherwise, they are instructed to leave the thermostat alone. Since my husband plus I are so firm with our rules, they are nice about following them. I haven’t caught either of them messing with the thermostat without our permission in at least several or several years. I prefer my youngsters plus I’m proud of the people they’re growing into. They’re both driven plus responsible, especially with their studies.